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Showing posts with label special education. Show all posts
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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

How One Word Can Ruin Your Whole Day (If You Let It)

Creepy.  The word was creepy.  Not "mean" or "weird" or "stupid" but creepy.  Creepy invokes images of haunted houses, old witches with crooked fingers, or strange men hanging out by the restrooms. Creepy is an ugly word, meant to invoke fear or at least a feeling of extreme discomfort. Creepy is not a nice word and it has no business associating itself with my daughter.
One of the reasons I love teaching so much is because I really enjoy getting to know the children.  I make a point of creating a personal relationship with every child on my campus because I want them to know how much I care about them.  It's not enough to know what class they are in or what grade.  I want to know more than just their names. I want to know what they like to do, what interests them, what and how they want to learn. I like to hear about their families and what they did last weekend.  It's because of these relationships that I can get some students to do things other people can't.  If a child I have a relationship with is making a bad choice, I can often get him or her to stop.  If they can't or don't want to do their work, I can usually fix that, too.  I love these kids and I want the best for them so I do everything I can to help them understand that they are important and appreciated.
And when one of them goes and calls my child a horrible name like, "creepy," well, it just breaks my heart.
It's hard to get over something like that.  Sure, we're talking about children and they do things sometimes for no explainable reason. I still love this other child and I still want to see her to do amazing things but sometimes it's hard to actually be an adult and move on without remembering every time I look at her or speak to her what an awful thing she said about my baby for absolutely no reason. I think it's only because I care about her so much that it's affected me the way that it has.  I guess I feel a bit betrayed myself. I can tell she is sorry that she said it  because she won't look me in the eye now and she's not quite her same bubbly self today. Hopefully, she has learned that her words are more powerful weapons than she had imagined and, therefore, she needs to choose them carefully.
I'm sure tomorrow will be different and the sting will have dissipated some. It's funny how time can do that. Sometimes I am happy that Imma doesn't understand everything because at least she avoids some of the pain words like this one can cause. But then that argument is circular because she might not have been called this name in the first place if she could understand.
I am glad that I am here to protect my child and the other children who are different. Not everyone has the opportunity to go to school with their children everyday and those children need someone to stand up for them.  I'm constantly on the look-out for children being picked on and I try to alleviate those situations so both the bullied and the bully can find happiness.  If a small child is picking on another child, everything isn't okay on either end. I know I can't possibly rectify all of the wrongs that happen each day but hopefully I can be of some small influence to our children and help them to make better choices next time so that no one else has to feel the sharp sting of an ugly word like creepy.


On a lighter note, I finally got some pictures of the girls playing t-ball!
Lucy holds the bat funny!

And usually pushes the ball off with the wrong end.

I don't think that's where your glove is supposed to go, Lu Lu

Getting ready!

It's a hit!


Monday, January 7, 2013

Acronyms, Abbreviations, and ARDs: What in the world are they talking about??


One of the most confusing parts about being the parent of a child with special needs is trying to understand the lingo.  Educators use a lot of acronyms and other words specific to special education when they are talking about your child and it is very important to make sure that you understand exactly what they mean when they use these abbreviations and jargon.  If you are not sure, ask.  I can’t guarantee that they won’t make you feel like you should have known what they were talking about but wouldn't you rather look uninformed than have your child placed in a program you didn't understand because you didn't ask? You can always ask me, too, if you aren't sure.  I know what most of it means and if I don’t know, I’ll be willing to find out for you!
Let’s talk about some of the words you will hear again and again. The first one is “SPED.” SPED is an abbreviated way that teachers talk about special education.  You may hear a teacher refer to themselves as a “SPED” teacher or they may say, “I’m SPED.”  They might also refer to a student as being SPED.  This is just a quick way of saying a teacher or a child is affiliated with special education services.
Another acronym that was tossed around a lot at Imma’s meeting is, “AU.”  AU is one way of referring to autism.  You may also hear, “The student has (or is) ASD.”  This means “autism spectrum disorder.”  When an educator uses the terms AU or ASD, they are saying that a child has been identified as having autism or one of the disabilities previously group with autism, which include Asperger’s, Rhett’s Syndrome or Rett's Disease, and Pervasive Developmental Disorder (or PDD). The law has recently changed and students are now identified as having an Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or not. There are no longer subcategories.  That does not mean that these terms will no longer be used as it always takes a while for the correct verbiage to filter all the way through the system.  Also, please keep in mind that the child should always come first when you are talking about a disability.  Teachers should be saying, “a child who has autism” or “a child identified as having autism disorder” never “an autistic kid” or “he’s an autistic.”  We want to put the child first.
Depending upon what the area of disability is, you may hear other abbreviations in your meeting.  Sometimes teachers use the abbreviation “MR.”  This means “mentally retarded.”  This is a phrase that some people toss around as an insult but it should never be used that way and if you ever suspect an educator is using this word incorrectly, please say something to him or her or a supervisor.  There is a clearly defined “Intelligence Quotient” ( or IQ) that determines whether or not a person is classified as mentally retarded.  It is just as much a disability as any of the other disabilities we are discussing and should never be used as an insult. 
Another abbreviation you may hear depending upon the area of evaluation is “LD.”  LD stands for “learning disabled” or “learning disability.”  This means that a child has been identified as having great difficulty acquiring skills in one or more areas due to certain factors, which the diagnostician has been able to quantify.  There are a lot of diagnostic tests that go into reaching the conclusion that a child has a learning disability and diagnosticians tend to use a whole other lingo to talk about this so we won’t go into that today but you may need to know what they are talking about if the committee says, “I believe your child may have an LD.” 
The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, or IDEA, is the law that regulates who is identified as qualifying for special education, how they are identified, what services are to be provided, and how those services must be provided.  You will receive information about IDEA before the testing process begins and at every committee meeting.  If you do not receive a guide for IDEA, please ask for one. Once you receive it, please read it. It is not an interesting read. It is extremely wordy and boring.  But you need to read it so that you know exactly what the other members of the committee are talking about.
You may be asking what committee I am talking about.  This varies from state to state, but in Texas, this committee is called an ARD committee.  ARD stand for Admission Review and Dismissal. This is the committee that determines: 1) if a child qualifies for special education services 2) what goals and objectives need to be worked on 3) how those goals and objectives will be taught 4) how to determine if goals and objectives are met 5) the environment the child will be learning in (or placement) and 6) if and when a child will be dismissed from special education services.  This is extremely important because you are a voting member of the ARD committee.  Again, the other members may vary by state but you will always have an administrator (principal or assistant principal), a general education teacher, a special education teacher, and a diagnostician or specialist in the area that was tested.  All of the committee members will either agree or disagree with the recommendations.  You have the right to disagree so if you think you need to use it, do so.  Most of the time, the specialists are going to have all of their ducks in a row and they are going to have already determined what the qualification is, the goals, measurement of those goals, and the placement of your child.  Ask a lot of questions while they are talking about the goals and the placement. If you don’t understand, ask for clarification.  If the committee members cannot answer your questions to your satisfaction, ask for someone else to come in and explain things to you.  This is your child and you need to know what they are talking about.  Don’t let the lingo throw you off or intimidate you.
One of the most important decision the committee makes involves adopting goals for the student’s Individual Education Plan (IEP).  Basically, this document takes the place or supplements the regular school curriculum.  The committee determines what goals your child needs to work on and in what order. This should be based on the diagnosticians report and/or your child’s class work.  If you feel like your child has already mastered these goals, speak up. Sometimes children act or perform very differently at home than they do at school and if you don’t say anything, your child could waste a colossal amount of time working on something s/he already knows how to do.  For example, I was once told it took 120 trials with my daughter to get her to learn what an ice cube was.  I said, “My daughter knows what an ice cube is.  She’s known that for a long time!”  But they weren't seeing it so it “didn’t count.”  They also told me she didn't know what a pond was.  We have a pond in our front yard.  She knows what a pond is.  Children act differently and say different things at school. My child wasted a lot of time that year trying to “learn” things she already knew because she wasn't showing her teachers what she knew.  Have these discussions with your child’s teachers because they don’t want to waste time either.
 This is a lot of information—and believe me, there’s plenty more where that came from!  But I am only going to mention one more piece of lingo to you in this article.  I want to make sure you know what the phrase “least restrictive environment” means.  In special education there are several choices of where your child can receive services.  They can receive services in a general education classroom (regular classroom) through their general education teacher and a special education teacher who comes in to the classroom and helps support your child. This is called “inclusion” because your child is included with the other non-disabled students.  It could also be a special education aid who provides these inclusion services.   The next level of restrictions is called “resource.”  This is when your child leaves the general education classroom for an agreed on amount of time and goes to the special education teacher’s classroom to work on the IEP goals and objectives set by the committee. Your child may have other students with him or her or s/he may be alone, depending upon the size of your campus and how many special education teachers there are.  The amount of time your child spends in the resource classroom must be agreed upon by the committee, including you.  If you feel like your child is spending too much time out of the classroom—or not enough!—speak up.   The most restrictive environments are special  classrooms, sometimes referred to as “units” where the child spends all or most of his or her day with the special education teacher and little to no time with a general education teacher.  An example of a unit would be a Life Skills classroom, where moderate to severely disabled students learn the skills they need to be successful in life. This is sometimes referred to as a Functional Academics Classroom (or FAC.)  There are also units for students who have Emotional Disturbances (ED) that create behavior that disrupts general education classrooms and there are Autism Units, sometimes referred to as Structured-Teach Classrooms where students who have qualified to receive special education services because they have been identified as having autism can be placed.  Structured-Teach is just a type of learning where the teacher goes through a series of lessons with a student following a particular order and these lessons are usually on a one-to-one or very small-group basis.  You can learn more about structured teach classrooms here.  Most structured teach classrooms are set up following Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) and if you hear that term used when referring to your child’s education, please do as much research as you possibly can.  One source of good information is Autism Speaks and you can find the ABA link here.  
So, when we say that a child needs to be placed in the “least restrictive environment” what we are saying is your child needs to be in a classroom where s/he will be able to learn what s/he needs to learn with as few changes in schedule as possible.  If your child is in special education,  by definition, the general education classroom alone was not sufficient enough for him or her to be completely successful.  You want to consider inclusion next, followed by resource, and one of the special units as a last alternative.  Never let an educator try to take these rights away from your child.  If you find an educator who is unwilling to try a less restrictive environment before placing your child in a more restrictive environment, it’s probably time to call in an advocate, or possibly even a lawyer.
I’m not saying that some children don’t need to be in a restricted environment, nor am I saying that some diagnosticians can’t immediately look at test results and draw this conclusion.  However, sometimes, as in my own case, the most restrictive environment was the only one considered by the other members of the ARD committee and when I refused to place my child in the most restrictive environment without trying  the alternatives first, well, let’s just say I ruffled a few feathers.  There is a disagreement process in every state.  Know what it is in yours and don’t be afraid to follow it.  Luckily, I was able to move my child to another school district and she know spends the vast majority of her day in the general education classroom.  She has inclusion for part of math and part of reading.  She also has 20 minutes of resource a day and she is pulled out for speech two times a week. That’s it.  The rest of the time she is in the regular classroom like everyone else.  The ARD committee at our previous school district told me she could not possibly be successful in a general education classroom. Like most things, Imma has proven them wrong in this as well.

Was this helpful?  What other question are out there?  What other abbreviations or acronyms are you hearing?  What other resources would be useful?  Please let me know and I will happily write some more about this topic.  I have a list of some other resources available at the end of this post.
My beautiful daughter, Imma-Jane

Saturday, January 5, 2013

More Info About Special Education Eligibility

I have had several conversations with parents lately regarding the stories I posted about Imma and the events that occurred during the decision making progress for her special education eligibility.  I wanted to elaborate a little bit on some of the topics I discussed and provide you with some more resources.
First of all, I want to clarify something I think is confusing to parents and teachers alike. From a school's perspective, there are two different types of disability diagnoses.  The first one is a "medical diagnosis."  This means that a doctor or a psychologist, someone out side of the school who has the authority to do so, has diagnosed a child wit ha disability.  This could be a diagnosis of autism, attention deficit disorder, etc.  This is a medical diagnosis because a qualified source outside of the school has evaluated the child and determined that the criteria for the diagnosis has been met.
The second type of diagnosis is an "educational diagnosis."  This is different.  This is when the school personnel have done evaluations and have determined that not only is there a disability but that the child is in need of special education services in order to be successful at school. So, it is very possible that a medical doctor could diagnose a child as having ADD or autism and a school could do an evaluation and say they do not meet the established criteria to receive special education services.  The school diagnostician and/or psychologist would then need to show the other members of the decision-making committee why the student does not need the services.  For example, they could demonstrate through qualitative diagnostic exams that the student doesn't meet the criteria or they could show that the student is being successful in the classroom and is not in need of any extra services or support.  It is important for parents to understand the differences between these two diagnoses and to understand that it is not necessarily a bad thing if the doctor says your child has a disability but the school says that your child is not in need of services.  Most of the time, the school is going to be correct.  If they can demonstrate to you that your child is receiving ample support in the classroom, highly consider leaving your child in the general education setting.  While there are benefits to special education, most schools have other supports in place for students who are struggling but are not special education students.  It is very likely that your child will be receiving support through a Response to Intervention team, a Reading Specialist (like me!), a Math Specialist, or another staff member who can provide similar support to your child without having to label them as "special education."  While it can certainly be beneficial for certain students to be placed in a special education for inclusion (when the special education teacher visits the child's regular classroom) or resource (when the student leave the regular classroom and goes to the special education classroom for a period of time) if the school says the student does not need these services, please consider the school's evidence before pressing the issue.
Now, that is not to say that there aren't circumstances when some schools may deny services for some reason and parents have every right, and the responsibility, in fact, to press forward and demand services.  Certainly this has happened before.  But I have found, even through all of the issues I've had in our previous district, it is always better to have an amicable relationship with the school and to truly listen to the school's reasoning.  You can always have an advocate or lawyer come with you to meetings with school personnel and you may want to do that if you think the outcome is not going to be best for your child.
Another topic I wanted to clarify are the eligibility areas for special education. Many of my teacher friends have said they couldn't believe that my child was going to be placed in a special autism unit when her only special education eligibility is speech.  Here is a list of the areas a child can qualify for special education services under:

  • Autism
  • Deafness
  • Deaf-blindness
  • Hearing impairment
  • Mental retardation
  • Multiple disabilities
  • Orthopedic impairment
  • Other health impairment
  • Serious emotional disturbance
  • Specific learning disability
  • Speech or language impairment
  • Traumatic brain injury
  • Visual impairment, including blindness

    In order to qualify for special education services, your child has to have an educational diagnosis that qualifies him or her in one or more of these categories.  And you cannot receive services in an area where your child does not qualify. So, if your child is deaf, they cannot receive services for having a specific learning disability, unless s/he qualifies for that as well. In our case, my daughter qualifies for special education for a "speech or language impairment."  The school district where we lived was trying to place her in a classroom that serviced students with autism.  We have not documentation to support the diagnosis of autism. They justified this placement by telling me she had something called "Non-categorized Early Childhood Autism."  That is not a thing!  That is not a category, as you can see above. I thought it must be a qualifier under the autism classification but it's not.  In order to receive services as a child with autism there must be a document that says your child has an educational diagnosis of autism.  We had a document that said our child did not have autism and the examination was completed by a school psychologist. My point?  Don't be a sucker.  Ask questions, lots of them.  Ask for explanations.  Ask where that qualification falls on this list.  Ask to see the law.  More importantly, read the law ahead of your meeting.  I have a link below that I think you will find very useful if you find yourself in a situation similar to mine. If you know anyone who has a child in the process of being diagnosed for special education, please pass this information on to them.  It could be extremely helpful to them.
    Also, please notice ADD and ADHD are not on this list.  They fall under a different  qualification called "504."  This is not the same thing as special education and if you hear an educator say "504" and you're not sure what that means, start asking questions.  You can also find information about 504 eligibility on the website below.
    What other questions do you have?  Please ask in the comments or email me.  I am happy to answer anything I can and if I don't know I will find out!  Also, what other topics would you like more information on?  I know a lot of parents read this blog that are in a similar situation to the one that I was in so please ask me anything you'd like to know about. I'm here to pass on what I've learned
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